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Friday, July 20 – Sunday, July 23 Durham to Tuscaloosa

Friday,  July 20 – Sunday,  July 23    Durham to Tuscaloosa


Sorry this took so long to begin.  We are now in Wyoming, having been through Alabama, Arkansas, Oklahoma, and Utah  (and maybe more) without having cell phone service or internet or TV.  It has been great.   I will have to get a new version of Photoshop before I can provide pictures, but trust me, except for the Ozarks in Arkansas and Flaming Gorge Utah there has been little beautiful to photograph.  We are having a good time, though, and belatedly I will add to the blog.  This is the first chapter...Alabama....July 23....


You might wonder about a person who begins their trip on a Friday morning heading on I-40 west toward Asheville but thankfully we were ahead of the folks fleeing to the mountains. 

  The Scenic Byway that bypasses Cherokee and other wonderful tourist places that decorate the eastern edge of the Great Smoky Mountains was a godsend and we reached our first night in Murphy, NC safely and uneventfully. This byway travels the route now referred to as the “Trail of Tears”, along which the native Cherokees were driven out of their homes in the North Carolina hills to the barren western territory of Oklahoma.

The navigation challenge for the next day was to artfully avoid a false turn that might cause us to end up in Atlanta, --which we did --and we arrived at Lake Lurleen State Park , just outside Tuscaloosa, Alabama.  Lurleen was the name of the wife of the famous (infamous?) Governor George Wallace of Alabama of civil rights fame.  In spite of that, it is a lovely wooded park nestled around a small, peaceful lake.  No TV, no internet, and surprisingly no cell phone service.  We had to unhook from Snoopy and drive 8 miles back toward town to call my cousin in Tuscaloosa, and let them know we had made it successfully to town.

John Mayberry Hisey, the next-to-last Hisey in my Hisey family tree (He has one son Evan who had only a daughter), is three months my senior.  Growing up our families spent time together, and John’s father Alan, my Daddy’s older brother, was responsible for helping Daddy out of scrapes and hard times in Knoxville and Memphis, Tennessee as he meandered west seeking his fortune (and ultimately finding my Mother in St. Louis).  John and I are the “youngest” of the cousins, and he and his wife Pam were married not quite a year before Chick and I.   In 1972 both of us couples were “objects of interest” at a Tennessee family reunion, but Pam was in the spotlight because she was pregnant.  All hopes of the Hisey heritage were centered on her because all the other cousins had only girls.

John and his wife Pam have a historic old home several blocks from the campus of the University of Alabama (yes, I actually voluntarily toured the Alabama campus…Uncle Alan was a chemistry professor there—though educated at the University of Tennessee!)  Their historic home has the 12-13 foot ceilings, the front and back stairs – allowing the “help” to travel out of sight between their rooms in the basement and the upper floors of the “family”, and the dark, quite interior rooms  required in a real Southern Home.

 It was really fun to walk through the rooms and see the same Globe Wernicke bookcases from my Grandfather’s house that I have at home, sitting quietly in John’s home, too.  Look!  In the corner is the marble-topped, walnut lamp table beside an oak rocker from Aunt Katharine’s house that matches the smaller table I have at home!  In each room is a little piece of my family nestled alongside the family heirlooms from the Pam’s Paul family.

But what I loved best was the large, high ceilinged porch around the front and side of the house, nestled under trees so thick it was dark and cool even with the 105 degree heat baking the sidewalk just beyond the front yard.  

Along the sidewalk, thick greenery, flowers and bushes, stood three to four feet high blocking the heat from the pavement from entering the yard.  Heavily leafed branches of the dark green trees hung down to almost meet the greenery leaving just enough space between to allow gentle breezes to move from right front to the left back corner of the porch where we sat, under the slowly moving ceiling fan.  A barely noticeable screening around the porch kept the unwanted visitors away, letting the family, their two dogs, one cat, and the Palermos enjoy the day, catching up on family stories, sharing travelogues of ours and their many trips all around the world.  

John was in the Air Force in Southeast Asia as had been Chick, and they compared and contrasted their observations from their different perspectives.  It was amazing how easy it was to spend time and be comfortable with a part of the family we have so seldom seen, but it was fun to see how many interests and viewpoints we had in common – like a family.

After a late dinner, and not a small amount of wine, we headed back to Snoopy on the lake, glad we had left the air conditioner in Snoopy going on “high”.  The first night the noise of the AC had been disturbing. Perhaps thanks to the wine, we had no trouble sleeping this night and being thankful for the “somewhat” cool interior.

High temperature for the day per the thermometer in Snoopy was 107 degrees!


Cousin John Hisey and wife Pam in Tuscaloosa



Friday, July 20 – Sunday, July 23 Durham to Tuscaloosa

Friday,  July 20 – Sunday,  July 23    Durham to Tuscaloosa Sorry this took so long to begin.  We are now in Wyoming, having been throu...